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The Red Event 24’ - The Energy Was Unstoppable!
The room was electric from the moment the doors opened. The energy was unstoppable. Music like "Uptown Funk" and I Got A Feeling playing made it hard to stand still and not bop along.
The Beauty in the Struggle: Kim Becker’s Story of Faith, Cancer and Calling
In a recent article for Franciscan Health's Inspiring Women magazine, I had the opportunity to share my thoughts on the transformative power of resilience. The article, titled "The Beauty in the Struggle," delves into the notion that embracing challenges and setbacks can lead to personal growth and a deeper appreciation for life's triumphs.
Mike’s 6 Year Anniversary
I can not believe that it was 6 years ago today that you left us. Some days it feels like forever ago and some days it feels like yesterday. Trisha and often joke that you are working harder in heaven than you ever worked here on Earth!!!!
Why Journal??
When Mike passed away, next to my faith and family, journaling is what got me through that tough time. There is something about getting ALL of the words and feelings out of my head and down on paper! I believe that there is great value in journaling which is why I created a journal for your cancer journey.
The Red Event 23’ Was An Amazing Day!
As a non-profit leader, there is a lot of fundraising to do and many events to plan. I came to the realization that we plan many events to raise money and awareness to help women with cancer, but we had never put on an event for women that had ever heard the words "You Have Cancer!"
Kim's Kloset ~ A Dream Come
When we first started the Hello Gorgeous! program, we only offered the surprise makeover. A woman with cancer would have to be nominated by a loved one and we would work with them to pull the surprise of a lifetime. What we soon realized is that some women didn’t have a support system to nominate her, or there were women that we helped once with a makeover and who had been re-diagnosed, and we couldn’t offer any type of assistance. That is when the dream of Kim's Kloset emerged.
…..And Then God Showed
I have discovered that it is really hard to have faith in the unseen. It's all well and good when things are going my way and I can see a way out. But when things are rocky and there is no relief in sight, that's when I find myself struggling.
What do you do to Persevere?
The definition of perseverance is persistence in doing something despite difficulty or delay in achieving success. When I answered the call that God placed on my life, I mistakenly thought that life would be easy. I really believed that if I was obedient to God that he would protect me from all of the evil that life had to offer me. I realize now, that I set myself up for failure and was absolutely fooling myself.
Kindness Lasts Longer Than You Think
For more than 2 years now, I have met my friend Wendy for bible study every Tuesday morning at 7:00 am. We meet at a Panera and I order the same thing every week. 2 pieces of sourdough toast and a large unsweet tea.
Don't Stop Believing
Every day I pass a church on my way to work. They always have a message on their lighted sign. I see the sign but I very rarely read it. Today I did read and it hit my right in the heart. It read "Faith is a journey, Don't stop believing!"
Let It Be Good
Do you have a tendency to borrow trouble? Are you looking at things as a glass-half-full person or for reasons that things won't work out? Sometimes I feel that I fall into that category. Sometimes I can't let things get too good.
Jinger Brinkly
The cornerstone of everything Jinger does is Jesus Christ. She credits her creative abilities to God and His providence. She recognizes that perseverance is gained through refining. She is humbled by the people God has brought into her life, knowing that we cannot accomplish anything alone.
Just Start
I am that person that has to have all of the "conditions" right to start something. If I am going to write, I want the perfect notebook and just the right pen. If I am going to start a diet, I want it to be at just the right time. I remember talking with Millard Fuller, the Founder of Habitat for Humanity about my dream to start Hello Gorgeous!
God Gives and God Takes Away
We are all under the illusion that we have control of the things in our lives and the things that happen to us. I am the biggest offender of this. I would say all the time, that I spent the first 13 years of Hello Gorgeous! Telling God how to run the calling on my life. LOL Like I had any say!!!!
"You have to keep going
I remember vividly the Thursday before Michael died. He was in a hospital in our hometown. He had been hallucinating all night. He was working hard to save people that were not there.
Life's Lessons
When I met Michael I was 24 years old and he was 30. We had our entire life ahead of us. He was a spitting image of Mr. Clean, big gold earring and all. Michael was a bodybuilder in college and still had his bodybuilder physique when we got married. He was so strong. He was known to hoist a couch up on his shoulder and carry it out to a guest's car when he worked at Meijer.
Joy is a Wonderful Thing
Every year in January I plan a retreat for my executive team. I have done this for more than 10 years. Every year I ask each of my team members to pick words that will be the so-called theme for their year. I love seeing the words they chose and how they were y put into play during that year. This year my word was JOY.
5 Tips to Help You Become a Better Caregiver
Caregiving can be a difficult task, but also the most rewarding. Here are the 5 things that I learned about being a better caregiver.
10 Myths About Your Cancer and Your Cancer Treatment
Hearing the words " You have cancer" can be very scary. Time stops when you hear those words. I remember feeling paralyzed. My whole world was turned upside down. Here are 10 myths about your cancer and your cancer treatment
These Women Inspire Me!!!
I remember several years after Michael was diagnosed with his liver disease, anytime he saw someone struggling he would always say "I am the luckiest guy walking." Michael was always grateful for his disease. He said that it positively changed his perspective. He never asked why me.